The TV sit-com Modern Family integrates a technique used in reality shows such as Survivor and Master Chef in which the contestants talk candidly about themselves on camera away from the others. The Office also used this means to comedic effect, and it was a staple of the series.
The character will interact with others on the set, then the scene will break to the living room sofa, for instance, where a cast member of Modern Family will reveal his or her thoughts and feelings about the situation we just viewed.
Christians can use a similar break to good effect in their spiritual lives. After we have interacted with people or life experiences, we can take a break and candidly talk about it – to God. This communication is part of a healthy Christian relationship. “Pray without ceasing,” we are told. “But I don’t know what to pray for,” we object. Just talk to God about your life and feelings.
What with the assimilation of radio, TV, Internet, and multiple mobile devices, with their endless colors, sound effects, and sliding notifications screaming for attention, Christians have adopted the culture in a big way, and as a result, there is very little time given over to reflect on what one is really thinking, feeling, or being. The tyranny of the urgent drives us, keeping us on the move, shutting off any possibility of thinking for ourselves. We need to stop and assess the situation we find ourselves in that we may consider our options and change course to match the vision God has for us.
Really, we need to just stop and think.
“Did I really follow Jesus’ example here?”
“What were my true motives for doing this or saying that?”
“Isn’t there a better way to do this?”
“Should I do this myself or seek help?”
“Does this set the best example for my family and co-workers?”
“Does this dishonor the Lord?”
“Am I being pressured to make a decision I’ll regret?”
After each mini-episode in your life, take a break and talk to God about it.
